tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3913064145388512371.post8290005323264638082..comments2023-07-29T06:59:56.486-04:00Comments on I Beg To Differ: When A Heart Breaks, It Don't Break EvenPerplxinTexan♥http://www.blogger.com/profile/16086553823321642178noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3913064145388512371.post-46519723892507866322009-08-17T22:36:22.302-04:002009-08-17T22:36:22.302-04:00I feel a bit out of place here tonite. I am not M...I feel a bit out of place here tonite. I am not Muslim.<br />I don't see other people , men or women, as to what religion they practice or skin color, or nationality. <br />To me people are human beings, God's creation. And our purpose on this earth as I believe is to serve our Lord, and each other and to love one another.<br />But I do understand what you are saying. I've heard it said before about the black man. Why do they choose white women? I don't know the answers to these questions. I do however feel badly that you are so hurt, and I hope you find the right Muslim man for you some day. You will, I am sure of it :)<br />take care my friend, <br />Julian :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3913064145388512371.post-10101210691570514802009-08-15T20:08:20.245-04:002009-08-15T20:08:20.245-04:00I think Muslim men who do this, marry outside of t...I think Muslim men who do this, marry outside of the religion, just do it to be a rebel,to be different, and like you said because they dont want to be reminded perhaps. But I havent seen many cases like this happen either.<br /><br />And who is to say that he doesnt truly love that girl (Christian,Jewish, whatever the case may be) and who is to say that he wont try to bring her to the right path.Farnnayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09833826535761502269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3913064145388512371.post-75525077004381847432009-08-14T15:30:48.933-04:002009-08-14T15:30:48.933-04:00I love that an intelligent Muslim sister posted ab...I love that an intelligent Muslim sister posted about this. You never think it could happen to you or come to your community and then it does. You see like a legit muslim man marrying a Christian woman and although it's completely allowable you wanna go , yo what's up with that. I see the hurt. You should write her and let her know how much that poem touches you. Pain is best carried in plural.Marwa Ehttp://captainplanet.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3913064145388512371.post-80106377539595036252009-08-14T15:12:01.125-04:002009-08-14T15:12:01.125-04:00i think that muslim ppl shud first foremost marry ...i think that muslim ppl shud first foremost marry a gud muslim regardless of race, ethnicity, naitonality etc if they cn make a gud marriage thn they shud go for it<br /><br />in islam men r allowed to marry women who r ppl of the book..my Q is, can you count the women/ppl who are xtians and jews today to be ppl of the book, in the same way they wer in the prophet saw's time?? im not too sure........<br /><br />also, islamically u r sposed to look for a muslim woman first<br /><br />i agree our men do need to look wihtin the ummah first, n they probli rnt bcos most will expect an islamic way of living..n it is tru there r few men who r good men...this also links in with the fact that beleving women will outnumber men so much that each man will bcme responsible for 50 women...this is a sign of day of judgment<br /><br />frm my experience - i knw muslims frm various communities since i worked ina mosque for a number of yrs as well as within the muslim community of a large city in uk - the men r mre likely to hv been in a relationship with muslim n non muslim girls thn wmenlalanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3913064145388512371.post-26854317165367340702009-08-14T07:35:11.162-04:002009-08-14T07:35:11.162-04:00Being of the mind that everyone should be able to ...Being of the mind that everyone should be able to marrying anyone in the world they want, this is really interesting to read. I get it. I'm not saying you've changed my mind, but I understand.<br /><br />xorachaelgkinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18002691394373545956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3913064145388512371.post-83251546051728220872009-08-11T12:59:37.313-04:002009-08-11T12:59:37.313-04:00This might not count as an intelligent remark, but...This might not count as an intelligent remark, but at first I had no idea what was going on. I was so confused.<br /><br />Anyways, I don't know if I agree or disagree. I haven't seen or heard many cases of muslim men marrying christian or jewish women. <br />I've heard of maybe like 2 max. SO maybe that's why I'm not seeing it as a big deal. <br /><br />I think it might be the appeal of having someone different. <br />But I agree with your argument of having one less. It's true. And I see why it can be frustrating.controlled chaoshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01629192209542218228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3913064145388512371.post-30216143007534654512009-08-11T11:23:17.201-04:002009-08-11T11:23:17.201-04:00I love your writing style and how you presented bo...I love your writing style and how you presented both sides with out saying which is better. I also like that you brought up new points like that the prophet married women from outside of Islam, lots of peppz forget that.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3913064145388512371.post-27418870103194748992009-08-11T09:55:40.960-04:002009-08-11T09:55:40.960-04:00PT DISCLAIMER: This post was written of frustratio...<b>PT DISCLAIMER:</b> This post was written of frustration, not hate for any of the parties involved. If you posses a differing or relevant opinion and comment, please leave it below. Intelligent remarks are welcomed.PerplxinTexan♥https://www.blogger.com/profile/16086553823321642178noreply@blogger.com